life is about the choices you make

the choices that we make bring us to where we are today. i think it is more interesting how the choices that seem to be insignificant can make such a impression on your entire life. even more so, when you begin to regret that choice, how do you live with the choices you make. I must have been about 13, completely fabricated that age but young, when i decided that regretting is a waste of time and effort. Every decision, experience, or lesson, even those who seem to have negative consequences have value and contributes to the person and life you have now. Not to say, that I have been happy with everything I have ever done but that I would not take one thing back. I am here because of the choices I have made and the person I have become. Surely, at the time I thought certain experiences were difficult and challenging but because of each experience I try to learn something. I guess it is even more difficult when you end up in a devastating situation and you wonder how you ended up there. How could it be resolved or avoided? In the mean time, I just try to make good and thoughtful decisions, and hope they are for the best. this reflection has no bearing on my own life, I am in no devastating situation, just thinking......